Motherhood often feels like it should come with a superhero cape – so many responsibilities pulling you in different directions, yet never enough time to give each one the attention it deserves. It can be overwhelming! But if there’s one lesson I’ve learned on this parenting journey, it’s this: don’t do it alone, even if […]
Have you ever found yourself running from one church meeting or program to another, squeezing in work deadlines, managing the children’s activities, shopping, cooking, and still trying to keep your marriage spicy? Ah! I love God and I want to serve Him. I really do but between prayer meetings, Bible study and ministry meetings, sometimes […]
Ladies, let’s be honest; fashion in Lagos is a full-time job on its own. Every week, Instagram throws a new trend our way, and before you blink, everyone is rocking it. But me? At this age (feel free to guess), I refuse to stress myself over fashion wahala. I just want to look good, feel […]
Between work, church activities, school runs, and ensuring my husband doesn’t eat indomie for dinner, I sometimes wonder if I am a superhero in disguise. But you see this 2025? I have officially entered my soft life era. No more forming strong woman for nothing. Let’s start from the beginning. I work hard. I wake […]
Oya, let’s talk. This fitness matter… it’s not for the faint-hearted o! Between work, family, church, and that my small side hustle, who has time to be lifting weights or jumping upandan in the name of exercise? But we also know that we must move this body before old age moves it for us! So, […]
Last week, I nearly cried. My perfectly seasoned fish, sitting pretty in my freezer, went bad—inside the freezer! Why? NEPA (sorry, EKDC) decided to disgrace itself. Our light was just going off and on like wiliwili for days, and my inverter despite how hard it tried, couldn’t keep up. The annoying thing was that the […]
I almost gave myself high BP because of Lagos traffic. No, seriously. You see, I used to be that driver shouting “Oga, are you blind?!” and throwing my hands up like an agbero in frustration. My husband says I talk too much while driving, and maybe he has a point. But how can I not […]
Dear sisters, this ‘japa’ matter has shown me shege. Three years ago, when my closest friend packed her bags and moved to the UK, I nearly entered depression. We used to gist every day, vent at will, and hold each other accountable on our fitfam goals. Then boom! She was gone. Two more close friends […]
The other day, right in the middle of work stress and Lagos wahala, my phone buzzed. It was a dispatch rider at my gate. I wasn’t expecting any package, but I went ahead to receive it and when I opened it, there it was… hot, smoky Port Harcourt Boli and fish, sent by my dear […]
Raising children in this Gen Z and Gen Alpha era is not for the faint-hearted. If you are a Nigerian Christian mum like me, you already know that wahala no dey finish. My own wahala? Trying to communicate our good old Christian values and traditions to my two wonderfully opinionated children; a 13 year-old girl […]
